By Another Way

This morning’s reading was from 1 Corinthians 12: 12-20.  (see below for the text) All parts of the body, being different yet working together. I cannot help but think of the living situation here in Calais. Perhaps you like me, wonder how so many people, different ages, different languages, different cultures can get along and live together. Keep wondering!!!

Since I’ve been here we’ve had the following living in the house:

Brother Johannes a monk from Holland, the house Master speaking Dutch, French and English

Maria from Romania, speaking Romanian, French and English with an enchanting voice. MAria moved on to Taize for retreat time…

Babak, Ali and Moein from Iran, speaking Farsi and English and Babak speaks  French as well. Babak and Ali make movies…

Alexandra, a Scotch born French woman with a law background, (English and French)

Julie is also French with some English, she has left and hopes to return

Hussein, an Egyptian Arabic with some English

Young David, a Sudanese left trying to get to England. He may return.

Ibrahim from Syria, an Arabic speaker who is working hard on his French and works even harder at making us laugh

Hussein is a 17 year old from Egypt who speaks Arabic

Abdullah is from Sudan and speaks English very well as well as his native Arabic

Sr. Sheena, Mark and Avinash are originally from India and speak English and Hindi. Avinash also speaks French,

and then there is me, limited to English, although I understand a little French.

We gather every Monday morning after morning prayer and breakfast to assign or volunteer for the week’s work assignments in the house. Most get done.

Key assignments are cooking, cleaning up after dinner and other chores like cleaning bathrooms, floors and the refrigerator. Someone is assigned to house duty every day so the house is never unattended and there is someone assigned to welcome those who come to the door. S/he also has responsibilities of making sure bed linens are changed so beds are available as people move out and in.

The house also hosts a Farsi/English evening prayer one night a week (tonight’s prayer service lasted an hour!) Farsi and French lessons during the week along with many unscheduled and serendipitous gatherings. Basically half of us are basically volunteers who have come to help in the Jungle, and the other half are refugees who formerly lived in the Jungle and now live in Marie Skobtsova house as volunteers or as folks recovering from injuries or illness.

I have not discerned any bickering because people are not carrying their share of the load. Quite the opposite, there are many helpers for those who have task assigned to them. Yes, there was tension today because recycling bins were not loaded properly and the dirt (garbage) was not picked up today. But when the muttering started I heard an effort to get this right, not to blame someone for doing it wrong.

It is a privilege to live in a community like this, if even for a month. I’ve had my share of community experiences but there is only one that even comes close to what we are living here. That one was Camp Fatima, and we knew where that led.  (Hi honey!)

 

Text for 1 Cor. 12:12-20:

¹² For just as the body is one and has many members, and all the members of the body, though many, are one body, so it is with Christ. ¹³ For in the one Spirit we were all baptized into one body—Jews or Greeks, slaves or free—and we were all made to drink of one Spirit.

¹⁴ Indeed, the body does not consist of one member but of many. ¹⁵ If the foot would say, “Because I am not a hand, I do not belong to the body,” that would not make it any less a part of the body. ¹⁶ And if the ear would say, “Because I am not an eye, I do not belong to the body,” that would not make it any less a part of the body. ¹⁷ If the whole body were an eye, where would the hearing be? If the whole body were hearing, where would the sense of smell be? ¹⁸ But as it is, God arranged the members in the body, each one of them, as he chose. ¹⁹ If all were a single member, where would the body be? ²⁰ As it is, there are many members, yet one body. ²¹ The eye cannot say to the hand, “I have no need of you,” nor again the head to the feet, “I have no need of you.” ²² On the contrary, the members of the body that seem to be weaker are indispensable, ²³ and those members of the body that we think less honorable we clothe with greater honor, and our less respectable members are treated with greater respect; ²⁴ whereas our more respectable members do not need this. But God has so arranged the body, giving the greater honor to the inferior member, ²⁵ that there may be no dissension within the body, but the members may have the same care for one another. ²⁶ If one member suffers, all suffer together with it; if one member is honored, all rejoice together with it.

Alleluia!
brings us together
Alleluia!
in Farsi, French or English
in morning prayer or evening prayer or Sunday Mass
Alleluia!
makes us one

In our first week here, Sr. Sheena and I have visited the hospital three times. We visit refugees from the Jungle who are in the local French hospital for treatment or recovery. In our initial visit together mid-week, it was enjoyable to work together but language was a problem. Neither of us speak Arabic, Farsi or Urdu the native languages of the patients. Sr. Sheena can speak with some Afghans based on her native language, Hindi. It was uncomfortable for me, but also for the patients as we learned in our third visits on Saturday. Today we split into teams with me visiting five patients with Babak, a Farsi speaker, and Abrahim who could speak Arabic. Sr. Sheena went with Bakree to visit five predominantly Sudanese Arabic speakers.

During today’s visits when someone speaking their native tongue was in the room, communication was much improved and we more clearly understood why the patient was hospitalized. Two patients have new cases of Lyme disease and cannot walk. Another Afghan had his hip bone torn from its socket in an attack by Taliban in his home country. He is still undergoing treatment away from his four children, two sets of twins ages 2 and 3. Another young Egyptian has cancer in the bone of his hip, a Sudanese has a nonmalignant tumor that is causing pain in his stomach and leg. One man is still recovering from a compound fracture of his leg in a major riot that happened at the Jungle May 27^th.

All of those we visit so far are Muslim. We tell them we pray for them. In return we are given their hand over their heart. We give them a piece of chocolate, fresh fruit, shoes and tee shirts when requested and even take clothes home to wash for them. Today especially, it was clear that they enjoyed the chance to speak to someone who understood them.

As we walk through the halls, we can almost tell a refugee’s room because the door is usually closed. They are not sleeping or having treatments, they cannot communicate well with strangers and don’t like some of the looks they get from those passing by in the halls. Much of France is on vacation in August and many have not seen their doctors in weeks. Two of the patients I visited today will be taken to Lille this week to see specialists there.

Hospitalization is never easy but is especially hard on those who are alone in a strange country. This problem is doubled when they do not know what is really wrong with them or have no idea how long it will be until they are released. On top of that they worry about where they will go when they are released. The young Afghan father told us he cannot sit on a normal toilet with his rebuilt hip. How can he go back to the Jungle, equipped only with Porta-Pottys when released?

Sr. Sheena signed up to make dinner for today. We shopped after the hospital visits and prepared a meal of pasta with zucchini, eggplant, mushrooms and peppers in tomato sauce, grated Parmesan cheese, with a large green salad with tomatoes, raisins, nuts, and bread. Have I mentioned we eat only vegetarian meals? I believe we fed 17 at the table for supper with left-overs for Sunday.

This was a much quieter day than the earlier days this week. Only three trips to the Jungle. And just a few observations.

The police have been targeting the “shops” on main street. A few weeks ago, the business owner from each shop was arrested and all the equipment confiscated. One shop a favorite of some of the Baptists visiting is owned by Hasheem, an Afghan who ran an Afghan food restaurant. Yesterday, his food, cooked and uncooked, was confiscated again. Today, when I entered the shop looking for our group members, I saw several of them, with the Baptists and some of the refugees playing a variety of games at the tables in the shop. Dominoes, and Uno were being played when I walked in. Jenny, a retired pastor’s wife had come with sewing machines to repair clothes and make alterations. She reported that the greatest demand was to turn baggy jeans into skinny jeans…which she was happy to do. The plan is to leave the machines in the hopes that some others would eventually take up the work when Jenny leaves tomorrow morning.

Mid-afternoon, Hasheem, who was not onsite appeared with stacks of Afghan bread still warm from the oven. He followed that up with plates of Afghan eggs…no charge. “Please to share”, he said.

After we left his shop a few doors down another Afghan stopped us to inquire of Brother Johannes, who wears a light blue habit, if he dressed like Jesus because he loved Jesus. Johannes agreed and the inquisitor suggested that the Afghans in traditional dress looked more like Jesus than did most Christians. Our new friend thought celibacy was unnatural and was insistent on engaging us in finding out what we knew about Islam, while sharing how they respected Jesus as a prophet and Mary as well. He went on to say we should believe in the last of the prophets, Mohammed. This was a discussion that could have gotten very heated but his questions and challenges were met with sincere listening and gentle responses. This was clearly a discussion that had no end in sight so we were thankful when it became necessary for us to move our minivan. Care for Calais, a non-profit had cleaned up a sandy soccer field and installed goals to have some serious play. Our van was where spectators would stand.

A final example of how this house is different. After dinner, Sheena and I were scheduled to clean the kitchen. It was hard to move in there because five others insisted on joining us. Neither of us ever got near the sink. As a dish was washed it barely touched the drying rack before someone grabbed it to dry it. Cleanup was done quickly and evening prayer was completed a little before 9. After a brief skype call with my lovely bride, we called it an early night.

The days seem to be getting longer, not with the length of time we see the sun but the length of day we are engaged with the house community and, or, the refugees. Today started with waking early at 5  AM in a house with no electricity, no hot water for a shower and no chance to re-charge my electronics-clearly a first world problem. After morning prayer and breakfast we made the first of five trips for the day to the Jungle.

We stopped at the church where they asked for the gas that we promised to get for them, then off to where the Sudanese live in the camp. In both cases we were looking for translators who would allow Sr. Sheena and I to make more helpful visits to hospitalized refugees. While looking for one of the Sudanese, we asked others which tent belonged to Bakree but first, chairs were brought and coffee served with enough sugar to stand the spoon up. They would not eat their breakfast until we had our fill.

Bakree’s name was called out and soon we were invited into his tent. Shoes off at the door is the custom. This son of teachers who has studied in the university agreed to translate for us after completion of the theatre workshop he was enjoying that week courtesy of Secour Catholique. He also agreed to join us for dinner.

In what was our third trip to the camp we delivered the promised fuel and went to pick someone up at the PASS triage unit in the Jungle (there is also one at the hospital) where refugees are cleared for a trip to the hospital. We were to pick up one friend, but there was a line of folks waiting for a lift to the hospital. One of them had a doctor’s appointment in 15 minutes and it is at least a ten minute ride to the hospital. We loaded the van to its legal capacity and took off. Sheena and I made follow up visits with the refugees I had met on Tuesday. It was now early afternoon.

After returning to the house, Br. Johannes and I took a long “easy walk” to get some yogurt requested by the dinner cook, and for a phone for me. I have been the ” on call driver” without a working phone. There was another trip to the Jungle to bring our friend back to the PASS unit before guests began arriving for dinner.

And what a dinner! We had about 8 Sudanese for dinner and a few others as well as  the 15 of us for a meal prepared by Abdullah who lives in the house. We had a wonderful philosophical discussion of the causes of inequality in the world initiated and led by Bakree who translated English to Arabic and vice versa.

The discussion and the meal that followed deserve its own post. Of course we prayed, Muslims and Christians together before the meal.

Every night this week has been an adventure for dinner. Monday’s gathering of the 14 of us at the table pales in comparison to the numbers, the fun and the sense of coming together shared each of the following nights.

Then we made our final trip of they day to the Jungle with its requisite inspection by from 2-10 armed police officers before we can enter. We have to put the signs in the window or don our Secour Catholic vests, stop, turn off the engine, present a letter saying I am authorized to drive the van and present my identity papers. The van is then inspected, plates compared to whatever database they use before we are allowed to proceed. You would think that after 5 trips in 1 day they would recognize us, but each time, the officers are different.

I only hope that at some moment the officers will realize what treasures they protect.

It was nearly 11 PM when Sheena and I returned to our rooms, exhausted but uplifted after another amazing day.

A big part of the planning for Wednesday was to prepare for the visit of Anglican Bishop Trevor of Canterbury who visited the house mid-day Wednesday with his wife,   , and Rector Carolyne. He has been to the Jungle before and wants the church to do more to assist those in the camp.

One project he is focusing on is trying to send a pastor to work in Calais who will be half time in service to the refugees in the Jungle. This requires negotiation with the French bishop of the Anglican church here in Calais.

He recognizes the difficulty of working with the current government but will be urging parishioners in his region to do more for those refugees who do make it to England, especially the unaccompanied minors.

This meant two large meals were prepared for the day. One with the Bishop and one for the guests who came for Farsi prayer in the evening.

We drove to the Jungle to pick up women who would be joining us for Farsi Prayer on Wednesday evening, a regularly scheduled prayer time. There are Iranian Farsi speakers living in the house and the women who live in the women’s shelter part of the camp, a secured area, joined us.

Brother Johannes and Babak led us as we practiced Farsi songs  which we accessed over the internet and we could read the anglicized words on the screen when the song was projected on the chapel wall.

You can listen to a little of the singing here. The song was beautiful, but my camera ran out of disk space so it ends abruptly.

Tuesday began with visits to refugees in the hospital. I shared the visits with Babak, a refugee who is a volunteer living in the house.

He also prepared dinner (for 28) and produced a movie about life in the Jungle https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tnze6Tt-nW0 shown in the evening meeting with 14 Baptist volunteers from the UK.

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Sr. Sheena spent the day with refugee women at Secours Catholique (French version of Catholic Charities.) We closed the very late evening with cake to say goodbye to Maria a volunteer who left for a week in Taize before returning home to Romania to see her family. After that she will be re-starting school in Sweden.